So whenever someone I haven’t seen in a while sees me 9 times out of 10 they’re first question is… So how many jobs do you have now? That’s because ever since I was old enough to get working papers, I have pretty much worked just about everywhere, many times simultaneously. I’ve been a recreation counselor, cashier, waitress at multiple restaurants, bank teller, contractor’s assistant, kids cooking instructor… I could literally keep going on forever.
But now I can officially add nanny to the list!
That’s right, after having moved out of a job in New York, I have joined the world of nannying to 3 beautiful kiddies (a newborn, a 5 yr old and a 10 yr old)! I gotta say it’s something completely new to me and yet not so new. Growing up in such a large family, I’m no stranger to kids. One baby sister and 11 nieces and nephews… the fun never ends. And yet it’s still such a fresh and new experience for me. I find myself learning something new everyday…
1. I don’t want kids for a while. lol
Now don’t take this the wrong way. I love kids. I’ve always loved kids, and many a times people have heard me say “I WANT BABIES!” But the dream of having babies and the reality of becoming a mother are two different things. I’ve learned not to confuse the two. There is a joy in becoming a mother that I long to experience but being honest with myself, I’m just not ready for the responsibility that comes with it. It’s one thing to watch a child and then give it back to its rightful owner. It’s quite another to be fully invested, morning, noon, and night for the duration of a lifetime. I say this only because there is such a rush forced upon my life to be married and start a family and yet I’ve realized that I’m still young. There’s still so much to do and learn in the meantime. If nannying has taught me anything its that I’m not in a rush. It’s not something I am ready for and perhaps I never will be, but I know this… not me, not know. (Especially since I’m still very single. lol)
2. Kids are hilarious.
My little kindergardener says the most hilarious things daily. For real I can’t stop laughing. I find myself needing to write down all the funny things she says just so I can remember them all. If that show Kids Says the Darndest Things was still on, this girl would definitely be on it. She keeps me on my toes and keeps the job fun.
3. Kids are sponges. Soaking wet, adorable sponges.
To have such an influence in a child’s life is extraordinary. Whether you’re a parent or a nanny, these kids watch your every moving, learning from your every word and action. (Monkey see, monkey do.) They crave your attention and most of all your leading. I’ve realized the effect that each individual has in a child’s life. God’s given us a place in to be an influence of love, peace and righteousness to these kids through His Spirit. To be able to be that in someone else’s home is an honor in itself.
4. One day I’ll be a great mother.
This is not to sound cocky, but to say that whether it is a matter of family or nannying, I have a heart for kids. To see them grow up, to encourage them and to simply love them. I can’t wait for the day when I have kids of my own, but until then I’m happy knowing that I’m learning a lot already.
So safe to say the new job is going well. Since the move from NY my stress levels have definitely gone down although I will need a back massage every now and again from carrying this baby all day lol.
So for all you nannies out there, I’ll leave you with some advice that a good friend gave me from all of her experience in the trade…
“Let kids be kids. Children are losing their innocence so fast these days. Climb on the monkey bars, swing on the swings and all that messy stuff. Let them get their hands dirty. Keep it simple and have fun.”