The Hidden Things

March 12, 2015

God, our God, will take care of the hidden things but the revealed things are our business. It’s up to us and our children to attend to all the terms in this Revelation. -Deuteronomy 29:29
We spend countless days striving to find out the hidden things of God, at least I know I have. I often find myself asking God, “Show me what’s next, Lord!” and yet still remaining in a state of bewilderment and uncertainty. I’ve always often wondered why the Lord would leave me in the dark about my future.
If there’s anything I’ve learned in this blind walk of faith, it’s that when God chooses not to show you something it’s most often because He is calling you to trust Him even more. We’re convinced that everything would be alright if God would just show us what’s ahead, but where does our faith come into play in that scenario? How does God build us up if we’re never tried and tested in uncertainty– If He only acts as a personal psychic to give us an ounce of superficial comfort for what lies ahead? Our God is so much more than that.
The reason why we are so dead set on knowing our future is because in all honesty, we’re terrified. We fear for our own safety and security because we really can’t see what’s ahead. Striving after God simply to know our end is not faith at all– it’s feeding into our fear. God is calling you to trust in Him knowing that everything in life, present and future, lies in Him.
“The hidden things belong to the Lord, but the things revealed belong to us that we may follow the words of His revelation.”
Follow that which is revealed and trust God will take care of the hidden things. Be obedient in the small things that God has shown you. Be obedient to His word even when it’s something as simple (or as hard) as His command to “Be courageous and know that I am with you.”
The hidden things are not for us to know just yet, but they will be someday whether in this life or the next. And when they do you will be all the better for having trusted God through the uncertainty.

Humbling Uncertainty

December 30, 2014

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Ok… so Ive purposely stayed away from posting for some time, in part because I was never really good at posting consistently and in greater part because of my pride.

If you read my last post then you were pretty much caught up on my move from working in the music industry the NYC to working a bit closer to home as a nanny. My last post was so full of hope in my new position and that was only a month ago. And now? Well, I’m unemployed. Ouch, it hurts to admit that being 27. Believe it or not I was laid off from my nanny position on Thanksgiving. (Low blow I know, but honestly I believe it was for the best.) Things just didn’t quite work out as I expected.

Which is honestly how I wrapped up the entire year of 2104. Nothing quite worked out the way it was supposed to. I spent much of the year struggling with disappointment and battling depression within myself, having consistent panic attacks and doubting God at every turn. I went through some jarring life changes within my family, moving to a new house, and going from dream job to being unemployed. There was so much transition and safe to say, I didn’t handle it very well. There were months of just wrestling with God for some control over my life, even though I knew very well that the idea of me having control was a mere illusion.

So what do you do when nothing turns out the way you thought it would? What do you do when everything you have planned and worked so hard for just isn’t paving the way for anything? What do you do when the prophecy of “2014 is going to be your greatest year ever” doesn’t come to pass?

I began reading this devotional by Jon Bloom called Not By Sight (my friend Yodit swears it to be life-changing… I second that). I came to a devotional entitled Can You Bear Uncertainty? and it asked the question, “Can you bear not knowing how God is going to provide for your most urgent needs and still trust that He will?” Reading this I knew God was speaking directly to me.

Truth was, I couldn’t. If I were really honest with myself I didn’t trust that God would really come through for me which is why I was trying to gain so much control. And if I were to dig even deeper I would go as far as to say I didn’t trust that God loved me like He loved His other children because favor seemed to be upon everybody else but me. It took a long time for me to get to this point and realize my false perceptions of God and where my unbelief was stemming from. Not only that, but to humble myself before God and submit to His process.

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Lessons of the Trade

November 17, 2014

So whenever someone I haven’t seen in a while sees me 9 times out of 10 they’re first question is… So how many jobs do you have now? That’s because ever since I was old enough to get working papers, I have pretty much worked just about everywhere, many times simultaneously. I’ve been a recreation counselor, cashier, waitress at multiple restaurants, bank teller, contractor’s assistant, kids cooking instructor… I could literally keep going on forever.

But now I can officially add nanny to the list!

That’s right, after having moved out of a job in New York, I have joined the world of nannying to 3 beautiful kiddies (a newborn, a 5 yr old and a 10 yr old)! I gotta say it’s something completely new to me and yet not so new. Growing up in such a large family, I’m no stranger to kids. One baby sister and 11 nieces and nephews… the fun never ends. And yet it’s still such a fresh and new experience for me. I find myself learning something new everyday…

1. I don’t want kids for a while. lol

Now don’t take this the wrong way. I love kids. I’ve always loved kids, and many a times people have heard me say “I WANT BABIES!” But the dream of having babies and the reality of becoming a mother are two different things. I’ve learned not to confuse the two. There is a joy in becoming a mother that I long to experience but being honest with myself, I’m just not ready for the responsibility that comes with it. It’s one thing to watch a child and then give it back to its rightful owner. It’s quite another to be fully invested, morning, noon, and night for the duration of a lifetime. I say this only because there is such a rush forced upon my life to be married and start a family and yet I’ve realized that I’m still young. There’s still so much to do and learn in the meantime. If nannying has taught me anything its that I’m not in a rush. It’s not something I am ready for and perhaps I never will be, but I know this… not me, not know. (Especially since I’m still very single. lol)

2. Kids are hilarious. 

My little kindergardener says the most hilarious things daily. For real I can’t stop laughing. I find myself needing to write down all the funny things she says just so I can remember them all. If that show Kids Says the Darndest Things was still on, this girl would definitely be on it. She keeps me on my toes and keeps the job fun.

3. Kids are sponges. Soaking wet, adorable sponges.

To have such an influence in a child’s life is extraordinary. Whether you’re a parent or a nanny, these kids watch your every moving, learning from your every word and action. (Monkey see, monkey do.) They crave your attention and most of all your leading. I’ve realized the effect that each individual has in a child’s life. God’s given us a place in  to be an influence of love, peace and righteousness to these kids through His Spirit. To be able to be that in someone else’s home is an honor in itself.

4. One day I’ll be a great mother. 

This is not to sound cocky, but to say that whether it is a matter of family or nannying, I have a heart for kids. To see them grow up, to encourage them and to simply love them. I can’t wait for the day when I have kids of my own, but until then I’m happy knowing that I’m learning a lot already.

So safe to say the new job is going well. Since the move from NY my stress levels have definitely gone down although I will need a back massage every now and again from carrying this baby all day lol.

So for all you nannies out there, I’ll leave you with some advice that a good friend gave me from all of her experience in the trade…

“Let kids be kids. Children are losing their innocence so fast these days. Climb on the monkey bars, swing on the swings and all that messy stuff. Let them get their hands dirty. Keep it simple and have fun.”